I’ve already asked this in the Adoption section but I thought that I would ask it here too, with added detail.
What are your views on interracial/International Adoption?
As in white people adopting black babies, asian babies, etc. Black people adopting white babies, Asian babies, etc. A person of one nationality adopting someone of another nationality, etc.
Do you worry at all about the complications of taking someone out of their their racial/national heritage or culture or community?
It goes beyond the color issue, though that would be where more significant and visual issues would arise. What about an person/couple adopting a child from another country or continent even where there is potentially a different heritage/background and how would that affect the whole process?
I ask this as I am reading "White Teeth" which deals heavily with identity and how a person finds/shapes/comes to terms with that identity, especially when one is obviously different from one’s peers.
I’ve also overheard someone talking about the strange looks (on both sides, white and black) his family would get because they look white with an adopted black child.
I’ve also seen questions regarding whether a seemingly "white" name might cause a black/mixed child to become alienated within the black community.
(also on the margins of the issue is the recent events involving an American couple adopting a Russian child, but this is only marginally relevant if even at all, I only know the basic facts and question whether I should include it at all, but what the hay)
SO, how do you feel/think about the matter?
If the african child come from a poor country, then he will have a better future in the white kid’s country. But the problem is he will not know his heirtage/ people and may feel his whole life like a stranger and his white parents can give him only their culture. The same problem with asian kids!