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June 25, 2010

What is the average cost of a private adoption?

There is a local grandmother (state is alabama) that is putting her grandbaby (under a year) up for Adoption. The child’s parents rights have been terminated b/c of the dad beat it up and the mom did not report it. The grandmother has custody. It was announced at a friend’s church and so far we r the only ones interested. What would be an approximate cost to do a Private Adoption (through a lawyer) with this woman?

It depends on if the baby is in the state system or not. If he is in the state system (foster, etc) then it should be almost free. (you’d probably have to pay for finalization, which for us was $750) If the child isn’t in the system, it’s probably be less than 2 thousand. (you’ll only have to pay for lawyers fees)

Private Adoption

June 18, 2010

AMC Independent: Kerry Washington introduces a clip from “Mother and Child”

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For movie times at your local AMC theatre, click here: http://amcurl.com/ly5

Three women’s lives share a common core: they have all been profoundly affected by adoption. Karen had a baby at 14, gave her up at birth, and has been haunted ever since by the daughter she never knew. Elizabeth grew up as an adopted child; she’s a bright and ambitious lawyer, but a flinty loner in her personal life. Lucy is just embarking with her husband on the Adoption odyssey, looking for a baby to become their own.

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Private Adoption

June 10, 2010

Independent Lens | MINE | Trailer | PBS

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http://www.pbs.org/independentlens/mine/ During the evacuation for Hurricane Katrina, people were forced to leave behind more than just their homes. Thousands of stranded pets were rescued and then adopted into new homes across the United States. As residents slowly returned to try and rebuild their lives, these “Katrina pets” became the center of full-blown custody battles, with people on both sides struggling to do what was right in the midst of an impossibly complex situation. MINE premieres February 16, 2010 on Independent Lens, a weekly series airing on PBS. Hosted by Maggie Gyllenhaal, the acclaimed series showcases powerful and innovative independent films. Presented by ITVS, Independent Lens is broadcast on PBS stations nationwide. Visit the Web site for more: http://www.pbs.org/independentlens/mine/

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Private Adoption

May 30, 2010

In a private adoption, who gets the money?

If a prospecitve adoptive couple meets a pregnant woman who agrees to adopt her baby out to them, who gets the money? The biological mom?

Just asking this out of pure curiosity.

Attorneys & agencies.

Mom gets stretch marks and a broken heart.

Private Adoption

May 28, 2010

Why is private adoption illegal in the UK?

I understand to a certain extent, to stop babys being bought for example. What happens if a mother passes away and the oldest sibling wants to adopt the youngest, or perhaps a cousin of the family looses their parents. Is this still illegal? If so why?

In both the US and the UK, you can immediately become guardian of a relative, often with only a brief court appearance to have the judge sign off on it. However, it is usually followed up by an investigation by social workers.

Kinship adoption always goes through the courts in your example, because once the custodial parent has passed away, the state is the guardian of the child.

Private Adoption SHOULD be illegal in the US. Babies shouldn’t be a profit making venture. Religious organizations deliberately move young women to other states to give birth so that they can circumvent notification and other laws. If private Adoption was made illegal, this wouldn’t happen.

Private Adoption

May 25, 2010

EARNING BONUSES & REWARDS FOR CHIlDREN/fDestructionofFilesAudio/Shreddedsociety

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See Petition
http://www.thepetitionsite.com/1/child-abduction-by-the-state
State of Missouri Leaves out the Timeline to the case that shows how they set the child up for adoption by using their own first hand knowledge.
State officials on the case, left out information in order to obtain an unlawful termination.
Time line shows their knowledge of their own actions and predated intentions to procure an unlawful adoption. Timeline was never allowed or used during court procedures that would show the judges deliberate ignorance and intentions to hide their own acts of child endangerment and fraud to obtain an unlawful Adoption.

Courts Rule on Parental Bonding To Separate Mother& Daughter while collecting federal funds, bonuses and rewards. Missouri state officials have taken the right to claim that a parent or child has no bond between them in order to establish a termination of parental rights act of law. See petition, Child Abduction By The State
http://www.thepetitionsite.com/1/child-abduction-by-the-state
What Would Our Lifes Be Like Today, If We Could Have Been Together?http://www.thepetitionsite.com/1/child-abduction-by-the-state
The state of Missouri makes devastating rulings based on parental bonding, while collecting their bonuses and rewards for children. Missouri state politicians continue to ignore allow for the family courts to take authority over parental bonding giving them the right to create and make false claims regarding a parental bonds worth in order to terminate parental rights in the state of Missouri.

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May 18, 2010

Harrell Robison R & Associates

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http://www.dexknows.com/business_profiles/harrell_robison_r_and_associates-b908079
For 15 years we at Robison R Harrell and Associates have worked in pairing birth mothers and adoptive parents. We are adoption lawyers who can help protect your rights if Private Adoption is the route you take. We specialize in private Adoptions with no agency intermediary, stepchild adoption, foreign adoption and grandchild adoption.

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May 12, 2010

David’s Adoption

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Child & Family Services-Capital Area is located in Lansing, Michigan. Our services include foster care, adoption, independent living (youth aging out of foster care), Angel House (children’s emergency shelter and advocacy center), mental health counseling, adolescent substance abuse treatment, and Lansing Teen Court.

This video clip highlights a success story from our adoption program, which works with children and youth who cannot return to their biological homes from foster care and are in need of a forever-family.

The legal finalization of an Adoption is a scene which is typically closed to the public eye. What makes this story unique is the age of the adopted child: by age 17, David had spent a long time in the foster care system and had no hope or expectation that anyone would adopt him. However, there are angels among us and miracles do happen.

The venue is the courtroom of Judge R. George Economy, 30th Judicial Circuit Court in Ingham County. Please watch and listen closely.

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May 10, 2010

I’m in love with my biological grandson and we’re having a baby

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http://nz.lifestyle.yahoo.com/new-idea/real-life/article/-/7124792/im-in-love-with-my-grandson-were-having-a-baby/44/

Pearl Carter is positively glowing with joy. She has a handsome new boyfriend, is enjoying an active sex life after many years of celibacy and, amazingly, is preparing to become a mother again.

But the retired grandmother isn’t carrying the baby herself. She and her young lover have spent a staggering $54,000 hiring a surrogate to help them with their dreams of having a child.

What makes Pearl’s decision to become a mum again even more shocking is that her new boyfriend is her biological grandson, 26-year-old Phil Bailey.

Phil is the son of Pearl’s daughter Lynette Bailey, and the pair is braving public horror and even prison by breaking one of the last taboos incest.

However, the pair makes no apologies for their controversial plan to start their own family.

‘I’m not interested in anyone else’s opinion,’ Pearl says. ‘I am in love with Phil and he’s in love with me. Soon I’ll be holding my son or daughter in my arms and Phil will be the proud dad’.

Phil adds, ‘I love Pearl with all my heart. I’ve always been attracted to older women and I think Pearl is gorgeous. Now I’m going to be a dad and I can’t wait.

‘Yes, we get laughed at and bullied when we go out and kiss in public but we don’t care. You can’t help who you fall for.’

Pearl was 18 when she fell pregnant with daughter Lynette. She was living with her Catholic parents in Indiana and they insisted she give the baby away, so as not to bring the family into disrepute.

They organised a private Adoption and Pearl never again saw her baby girl.

Pearl went on to marry, but she never had any more children. Instead she searched for her lost daughter until finally giving up hope 15 years ago.

Finding each other

In 1983, Pearl’s daughter Lynette had a baby of her own, who she named Phil. She raised him as a single mother.

‘My mother told me she was adopted when I was 18, and at the same time she told me she’d been diagnosed with brain cancer,’ Phil says. ‘I was devastated.’

Phil nursed his mum for six months before she died. It was then he decided to track down his grandmother. It took three years before he found an address for Pearl and wrote to her.

‘I was stunned to get his letter,’ says Pearl, who was now single. ‘My heart jumped that I’d be re-united with a grandson. I wrote back immediately and included my phone number.’

When Phil phoned Pearl, the pair admits they were both rather nervous. Pearl told Phil about being forced to give up Lynette for adoption, and Phil told Pearl about his mum dying of cancer.

‘We both cried but kept talking for three hours,’ she says. ‘When he emailed me a photo, I thought what a handsome and sexy man he was before pinching myself he was my grandson!’

Confused, Pearl talked to a friend, who told her about an article she’d read on Genetic Sexual Attraction (GSA), which occurs when close relatives meet as adults and are attracted to each other.

‘I could now understand my feelings and realise they weren’t wrong,’ Pearl says.

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Private Adoption

May 3, 2010

Dear Birthmother 1.wmv

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I talk about our desire to adopt a child, and give you some info about us, about open Adoption, and the Independent Adoption Center (IAC).

Links:
Us: http://www.paganoadoption.org

Independent Adoption Center: http://www.adoptionhelp.org

IAC’s IHeartAdoption site (family info): http://www.iheartadoption.org

Oh, and our own info:
Email: michelleandsteve at mindspring dot com
Phone toll-free: 877-301-7740

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