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China Adoption

October 31, 2009

Bring Me Hope

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Moving Chinese Adoption Video

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Widely Spaced Siblings

Opening Up A Colorful Cosmic Jewel Box

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Star clusters are among the most visually alluring and astrophysically fascinating objects in the sky. One of the most spectacular nestles deep in the southern skies near the Southern Cross in the constellation of Crux.

The Kappa Crucis Cluster, also known as NGC 4755 or simply the “Jewel Box” is just bright enough to be seen with the unaided eye. It was given its nickname by the English astronomer John Herschel in the 1830s because the striking color contrasts of its pale blue and orange stars seen through a telescope reminded Herschel of a piece of exotic jewelry.

Open clusters such as NGC 4755 typically contain anything from a few to thousands of stars that are loosely bound together by gravity. Because the stars all formed together from the same cloud of gas and dust their ages and chemical makeup are similar, which makes them ideal laboratories for studying how stars evolve.

The position of the cluster amongst the rich star fields and dust clouds of the southern Milky Way is shown in the very wide field view generated from the Digitized Sky Survey 2 data. This image also includes one of the stars of the Southern Cross as well as part of the huge dark cloud of the Coal Sack.

A new image taken with the Wide Field Imager (WFI) on the MPG/ESO 2.2-meter telescope at ESO’s La Silla Observatory in Chile shows the cluster and its rich surroundings in all their multicolored glory. The large field of view of the WFI shows a vast number of stars. Many are located behind the dusty clouds of the Milky Way and therefore appear red.

The FORS1 instrument on the ESO Very Large Telescope (VLT) allows a much closer look at the cluster itself. The telescope’s huge mirror and exquisite image quality have resulted in a brand-new, very sharp view despite a total exposure time of just 5 seconds. This new image is one of the best ever taken of this cluster from the ground.

The Jewel Box may be visually colorful in images taken on Earth, but observing from space allows the NASA/ESA Hubble Space Telescope to capture light of shorter wavelengths than can not be seen by telescopes on the ground. This new Hubble image of the core of the cluster represents the first comprehensive far ultraviolet to near-infrared image of an open galactic cluster. It was created from images taken through seven filters, allowing viewers to see details never seen before. It was taken near the end of the long life of the Wide Field Planetary Camera 2 — Hubble’s workhorse camera up until the recent Servicing Mission, when it was removed and brought back to Earth. Several very bright, pale blue supergiant stars, a solitary ruby-red supergiant and a variety of other brilliantly colored stars are visible in the Hubble image, as well as many much fainter ones. The intriguing colors of many of the stars result from their differing intensities at different ultraviolet wavelengths.

The huge variety in brightness of the stars in the cluster exists because the brighter stars are 15 to 20 times the mass of the Sun, while the dimmest stars in the Hubble image are less than half the mass of the Sun. More massive stars shine much more brilliantly. They also age faster and make the transition to giant stars much more quickly than their faint, less-massive siblings.

The Jewel Box cluster is about 6400 light-years away and is approximately 16 million years old.

Credit: ESO/Y. Beletsky/ESA/Hubble

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Parenting

Permissive Parenting

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Are you a permissive parent? Do you allow your child/children to do whatever pleases them? Are you a drill sergeant or do you fall somewhere in the middle?

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Foster Adoption

Therapeutic Foster Care and Adoption: Forever Family

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The Diocesan Catholic Children’s Home has been operating a therapeutic foster care program since 1999. In 2002 we began offering Adoption services for our foster parents wanting to offer their child a “forever family”.

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Open Adoption

Mommy’s Minute – Open vs. Closed Adoption

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If you’re thinking about adopting find out the pros and cons of open Adoption and closed adoption. Visit www.ThePregnancyShow.com

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Adoption

October 29, 2009

How would you measure adoption to raising your own flesh and blood?

Could Adoption ever measure up to actually giving birth and/or raising your own child that is made up of your and your significant others genetics?
Do you think a parent could ever have as strong of a bond with an adopted child as their own newborn child; this question would especially apply to women, considering giving birth is hard work with such a priceless reward. I also imagine how proud a father feels that he made a contribution to creating something as special as continuing his own bloodline and watching the child grow up with his own genetics and develop similar characteristics as his.

Art, it sounds like you’ve made your mind up on the issue, and that is fine, but I think you might want to spend a little time with an adoptive father and ask him.

A couple of famous folks who adopted their children: John McCain, Bob Hope, George Burns, Joseph (father to Jesus), John Denver, Walt Disney, Nicole Kidman …

A couple of famous adopted kids: Faith Hill, Bill Clinton, Gerald Ford, Jesse Jackson, Eric Dickerson, Nat King Cole …

Now, you may not think every person listed above is the cat’s pj’s, but each one of them have made a direct impact on our society.

We would be diminished as a people if those folks had not been adopted or adopted a little child. Seriously, before you close the door totally, call the local agency and ask to talk to an adoptive dad.

You owe that to a child you haven’t met yet.

Step Parent Adoption

how to fill out step parent adoption papers?

My husband wants to adopt my son from my previous marriage. The biological father has not had any contact in over a year. I just need to know how to fill out these papers so I don’t have to spend thousands of dollars on attorney’s fees.
father and child support absent for over a year…Live in state of Georgia…need to know what papers to file and how to fill them out (without paying a couple grand to a lawyer)
Anyone know of any good, low cost lawyers in the south Atlanta area?

You will have to get a lawyer.The lawyer will have to draw up the opapers and make sure the bio father’s rights are terminated legally. It will then go to court and a judge will finalize it. WHen i adopted my step daughter, it cost $750 for a lawyer and $140 for court filing fees.

Good Parenting

What are some good fictional teen pregnancy/parenting books?

For example, I read Slam by Nick Hornby. Are there any good books similar to that that you would recommend?

Someone Like You by Sarah Dessen
http://www.squidoo.com/sarahdessen

Christian Adoption

Pro-Life Christians as you think all abortions should be stopped and children should be adopted?

What do you think about the Christian Adoption Agencies who actively threatened to close down as opposed to give children to gay couples?

In other words they put their beliefs above the child’s right to a loving family, they would have effectively said "to hell with the kids, my beliefs are more important than your happiness!" How can these people do this and still feel they are moral?

Considering there are 1.7 million homeless and starving children in the world, it seems to me they talk the talk but don’t walk the walk.

Infant Adoption

Is there anything in newborn or baby adoption that AP’s, Adoptees and First Parents agree on?

I am not talking about Foster Care or abuse situations.
What areas of Infant Adoption are OK for all parties, if any? Is there any agreement at all in the Triad for reform for infant adoptions?

um…here’s what I would like people to agree on (and i know it will never happen…but..)

1- don’t claim babies in the wombs of other women
2- don’t use babies to "fix" infertility
3- don’t normalize birthing and handing over one’s flesh and blood
4- don’t demonize women who change their mind
5- don’t slam shut open Adoption agreements
6- don’t adopt babies who could otherwise be cared for by his or her parents (money doesn’t make a good parent)
7- don’t have adoptive parents hanging around the delivery room.
8- don’t "fight" for a contested adoption
9- don’t change a child’s name
10- don’t "lie" about about giving birth via an "amended birth certificate."
11- don’t label EVERY adoptee born to an unwed mother or teen as "unwanted" or "unloved"

only babies for whom the mother and father and family have stated they do NOT wish to raise (after birth, without any interference from "adoption counselors") should be available for adoption.

anything else…not so much.